I’ve given myself a challenge today: to help you find the woman of your life—the woman of your dreams.
The one who will keep you warm on winter nights and whose flame will never stop burning. Not so easy to find both! This is tough because we are all different, and one woman, means ONE not 50!
That being said, I obviously cannot sketch your perfect woman and therefore it is impossible for me to also refine your search. That you have to do yourself.
But we can at least help you increase your chances. Psychology, logic, personality traits, adaptation..
Here we are going to talk through a (non-exhaustive) list of tips that I have prepared for you to promote this encounter which could shake up your life.
Ok, so let’s do it! Personally, I am fortunate to live among most extraordinary woman. I can assure you: the woman in your life, when you meet her, you’ll know it, you’ll feel it, no matter your vision of love of the couple is.
1 . The woman in your life VS women you seduce
The Playboy, that guy who had that little something extra which allows him to approach attractive women, might not necessarily have the skills to help him recognize the woman of his life.
Indeed we take pride, pleasure in the process of seduction but this may have a tendency to blind us. In trying too hard to put some distance between us and our target we don’t allow feelings to emerge.
Let’s be realistic, this is just a detail. My opinion is that, simply, you can not act the same way with the woman of your life as with any odd conquest.
Why? Right from day one, regardless of your experience, you will feel that something is different, unique, even inexplicably so.
To be honest, took root in 10 minutes sharp. Not that I stuffed my tongue in her mouth after such short time, but we were already on the exact same wavelength, to looked at each other straight in the eyes, smiled, and talked about everything and nothing …
In fact, I did not have to “seduce”, it was done completely naturally.
2 . To find the woman of your dreams, stop looking for her!
This is the entire psychology of despair that comes back in this instance. Have you heard a friend complain that he never meets anyone interesting, that he had difficulties in seducing, but he was focused on finding “the one “?
His logic fails!
By focusing on a kind of “hunt” for the perfect woman, we start dreaming, we become too demanding, and we forget to really challenge ourselves. No! The woman in your life will not come knocking on your door in lingerie!
Every interaction should not be analyzed, to determine which women are up to your standards. It should happen naturally.
The more you expect to meet the woman of your life, the less likely it is to happen. This is because everyone you meet will sense this mindset. And nobody wants to feel judged or evaluated at first.
Interesting women will come to you if you develop a proactive lifestyle, with rhythm, an exciting one, with no talk of “relationship issues.”
if you’re waiting for the one, you simply lack charisma. You’re not going after goals, you’re living in a gloomy little world.
If you are on the lookout for the one, that’s fine, but don’t make it a ll you do. Keep on living and do not attach too much importance to the contacts you can build. The most important is to maintain your own identity, both psychologically and intellectually.
3 . Encourage a meeting refining your hobbies and the places you visit most
Nothing is better than to evolve in an environment truly matches our social intelligence.
It is obvious that if you’re the sporty type, energetic and full of life, you do not necessarily feel comfortable attending painting workshops or going to the opera (although it enriches your personal culture).
You might have an image of what the perfect woman is for you. It therefore seems more appropriate to go to places where such person would be at ease in.
It has often been said that opposites attract … This is sometimes true, but let’s remain realistic. You must be able to share a base, a common ground with people who are likely to have an impact in your life.
Well there is an opportunity here … But you must prove your ability to fit in a specific environment if you want to be noticed. Sorry where, SHE will notice you!
Small note here on Internet dating. Although it is not really my thing, I think that new technologies can promote meeting of individuals with shared values and a shared visions of life.
One of my best friends is recently married and the brand new father of a little girl. He met his wife on a dating website.
4 . Meet the woman of your life … being yourself!
The last tip is probably the most important. If seduction is now part of your personality, do not forget to be yourself. We have often met guys who specialist in talking all kinds of bullshit to win the favor of a beautiful lady.
But if there is a long love story to follow, this technique is suspect. Trust is the foundation of love. So, starting a relationship based on a lie is the worse way to start something!
The mechanism of seduction should not transform you into a manipulator, who values only the trophy. It is true that we give you tools, methods to seduce, but never forget that you are dealing with human beings!
The seducer is one who knows how to incorporate all these tips in his personality, and not the one who built his psychology around those … I just wanted to make that clear. In any case the woman of your life will make a difference.
But then how to find the woman of your life? Well, mainly staying open minded, confident, and serene. No need to be desperately on the look-out. Love often comes from the unexpected and strikes when it is removed from our list of priorities! Believe me.